Meekness - The Strength to Be Gentle

True meekness does not crush the wound. It is not built on insecurity, pride, anger or fear.

Rich Hall

5/13/20262 min read

Meekness - The Strength to Be Gentle

Matthew 5:5

“Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth.”

Meekness is one of the most misunderstood virtues in the Christian life. The world often sees the meek as weak, passive or timid. Scripture presents merkness very differently—it is strength under control.

A wild horse has power, but a trained horse is far more useful because its strength has been brought under control. In the same way, meekness is power surrendered to God’s direction.

Jesus described Himself as meek. That alone should transform how we think about it. No one was stronger than Christ. His Word spoke creation into existence, calmed storms and could have called legions of angels to His side. Yet He was tender with the broken, patient with the weak, and compassionate with sinners.

True meekness does not crush the wound. It is not built on insecurity, pride, anger or fear.

Proverbs 15:1

“A gentle answer turns away wrath,

But a harsh word stirs up anger”.

Sharp words and harshness damage and wound others. Once those words leave our mouths, we can’t retrieve them.

Gentle words change the atmosphere around us. Jesus restored Peter after his denial, not by humiliating him but by confronting him lovingly carefully. Boaz with Ruth, David while being hunted by Saul and Joseph with his brothers all teach us something about what meekness is all about.

Meekness is not being weak. Meekness is having the strength to respond in anger but being strong enough internally to restrain the flesh and show the gentleness of a godly follower of Jesus Christ.

Paul instructed believers:

“The Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all… patient when wronged, with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition” (2 Timothy 2:24–25).

That’s what meekness is all about. The meek are those who have learned how to control their words, tempers, and reactions. Anyone can explode in anger. It takes spiritual maturity to remain gentle when provoked.

The river that floods destroys. The river brought under control gives life.

Meekness is strength governed by love. It gives life.

Do my words bring healing or hurt? How do I usually respond when provoked or criticized? Would others describe my spirit as gentle?